Honoring the Flag: A Symbol of Sacrifice and Unity

By Tony Sabio

As a veteran, I am deeply troubled by recent comments made by School Board member Melanie Meren, as reported in the Fairfax Times on May 18, 2023. Meren suggested removing artwork depicting the American flag from Gatehouse, the School Board office building, due to personal triggers. This remark struck a chord within me, stirring a strong emotional response.

Throughout my military service, I dedicated myself to defending the principles of life, liberty, and the pursuit of happiness for all, alongside the protection of the fundamental right to free speech. These rights, enshrined in the Constitution, find their embodiment in the revered symbol of the American flag. It serves as a powerful reminder of the ideals and values we hold dear.

To witness the flag being disrespected, particularly by those in positions of influence like politicians, deeply troubles me. When I took the oath to serve my country, it was under the principles and tenets of the Constitution. The American flag encapsulates everything that is good within America—a beacon of hope, unity, and freedom.

The flag stands as a unifying symbol that transcends political parties, demographics, and personal preferences. It represents the collective sacrifices made by countless brave men and women who have defended this nation, many of whom have made the ultimate sacrifice and will never return to their loved ones or witness the land they fought for.

While I recognize that everyone is entitled to their own perspectives and experiences, it is essential for those in positions of power, such as Meren, to understand the profound significance of the flag and its representation of the very freedoms they are elected to uphold. Public servants should demonstrate an unwavering allegiance to the United States of America, placing the unity and welfare of the nation above personal preferences or divisive rhetoric.

The American flag embodies the spirit of a nation built on democratic ideals, resilience, and progress. It serves as a constant reminder of the countless individuals who have fought, and continue to fight, for the liberties we hold dear. It unites us under a shared identity, transcending individual differences and binding us together as Americans.

In a time where dialogue and understanding are more critical than ever, I urge us all to engage in constructive conversations, fostering empathy and respect for differing viewpoints. By doing so, we can work towards a society that embraces inclusivity while honoring the sacrifices made by service members and preserving the integrity of our nation’s emblem.

Let us remember the essence of the American flag, representing all that is good, and strive for a future where its significance is universally cherished and respected.

Tony Sabio is a Fairfax County business owner and a candidate for School Board in the Providence District. This commentary was first published in the Fairfax County Times on May 26, 2023.